There's a certain someone that I find myself absolutly infatuated with. I get nervous around him, I can't help smiling when he's around me. And it probably doesn't help that I've been reading nothing but sappy romance novels with steamy scenes..
Here's the problem, after about 3 or so months of "seeing each other" he completely stopped talking to me. One minute, he's coming over to spend the night, the next NOTHING. Now, he's saying how much he's missed spending time with me, and that he does really like me, he's just a big relationship-phobe. I've said before that I'm starting to realize that alot of men are just.. well.. bad news. (To put it lightly.)But for some reason I can't help being more drawn to those guys! It's sooo bad for me and I know it'll just end in heartache... so how do I know when to stop?
Is he just saying these things because I'm a rebound, and the whole time he stopped talking to me, he had someone else wrapped around his finger? Or is he being genuine in saying he's missed me and does actually really like me? Who know's? I've almost given up on trying to read men.
I've been very upfront with him lately, telling him that I like him alot, but that maybe I'm just not the type of girl he's looking for.
I'm not looking for anything serious, like I've said before- between a full time and part time job, while maintaining my personal at home life, I don't have the time or energy for something serious. But even so, have some resspect for the person you're "seeing."
I'm at a loss with what to do.
....must.....stay.....strong.....
I'll update you further.
Here's the problem, after about 3 or so months of "seeing each other" he completely stopped talking to me. One minute, he's coming over to spend the night, the next NOTHING. Now, he's saying how much he's missed spending time with me, and that he does really like me, he's just a big relationship-phobe. I've said before that I'm starting to realize that alot of men are just.. well.. bad news. (To put it lightly.)But for some reason I can't help being more drawn to those guys! It's sooo bad for me and I know it'll just end in heartache... so how do I know when to stop?
Is he just saying these things because I'm a rebound, and the whole time he stopped talking to me, he had someone else wrapped around his finger? Or is he being genuine in saying he's missed me and does actually really like me? Who know's? I've almost given up on trying to read men.
I've been very upfront with him lately, telling him that I like him alot, but that maybe I'm just not the type of girl he's looking for.
I'm not looking for anything serious, like I've said before- between a full time and part time job, while maintaining my personal at home life, I don't have the time or energy for something serious. But even so, have some resspect for the person you're "seeing."
I'm at a loss with what to do.
....must.....stay.....strong.....
I'll update you further.
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